On my mind today... Scammers are always so nice at first and then they turn angry and aggressive when things don't go their way. They use this pattern to prey on your core wounds - fear of upsetting someone, fear of disappointing, fear of not being enough, fear of being abandoned - are a few core wounds that come to mind.
If you struggle with any of these Core Wounds you are working on two Core Life Evolution Lessons - Learning to Validate Yourself and Learning to Stand in Your Power.
So to create the evolution you desire you want to learn how to energetically validate yourself, and how to energetically hold healthy boundaries.
And I'm not talking about working this out mentally, I'm talking about starting at the energetic level.
Everything starts energetically - the wounding and the healing and the evolution you sought to have this lifetime.
I see so many people trying to mental body their way through their healing and their evolution and it can literally take a lifetime if you are doing it this way.
So first learn how to energetically validate yourself as well as hold your boundaries and then also start digging in and getting to the root of those core wounds.
Core wounds start energetically and they too can be unraveled at the energetic level.
Plus there is this...working on your healing and evolution energetically is oftentimes much simpler because you aren't involving the complexity of the mind, which always thinks it knows better (and it doesn't.)
But the short of it - healing or not - don't let someone bully you into doing anything. If someone is showing up with aggressive language - urging you, demanding you, imploring you - take a pause, take a breath, step back, pull your focus into your own space - there's your energetic boundary - and decide what is right for you.
Have you ever had someone go from super nice to really angry & aggressive? What feelings came up for you?
Let me know below